Paul Wrock
  • Home
  • About me
  • Contact Me
  • Music

Paul Wrock

Artist. Speaker. Writer.

  • Home
  • About me
  • Contact Me
  • Music

Wrock Talk

Subscribe my Newsletter for new blog posts, tips & new photos. Let's stay updated!

Author

paulwrock

paulwrock

Life

What You Bring To The Table

written by paulwrock
Thanksgiving is next week, and soon we’ll all be sitting around a dinner table(or in my case the “grown-up kids” table). For my family, we bring a couple of coolers of food to go along with everything prepared. About 20-30 of us gather around a circle, pray, and then split up into our little tables and groups. But when we all sit down and bring our plates to the table, we’re also bringing so much more. So in this post, I want to consider three things we’re each bringing to that Thanksgiving table.
      The Past Year
First, we bring everything we have been through up to this point this year. Every experience, every relationship, every break-up, every high, every low, everything ends up at that table. I’m coming in at the best point of my life so far. I’m reasonably sure that everyone at the table won’t share my sentiment. So there needs to be a balance between being grateful about how well this year has gone and being sympathetic to those around us who haven’t had the same fortune I have. So there’s a balance I think we all need to consider as sit around the table and share life.
      Struggles & Fears
Everyone is always struggling with something or afraid of something. For me, I struggle with giving my calling everything I can while still making sure that I am investing in relationships with people. There is always this persist fear that things will never work out or even if they do, it will be too little and too late. Others are coming to the table with fear of spending the rest of their lives alone, wondering if they chose the wrong career, or gave up on their dreams. Some struggles and fears are very public: a divorce, the loss of a job, others and hidden far beneath the surface. We all the unique opportunity to speak into those things and encourage our friends and families this time of a year.
      The Potential For The Future
One of the cool things about the holiday season is that reflection gives way to anticipation(something I will probably write about more soon). The one thing that we can all bring to the Thanksgiving table this year is hope. No matter how hard this year has been the future always offers us a chance at redemption. Things change every year and some years are better than others. We can always point others to the truth that the best is yet to come in life. I know for me the best year of my life came immediately after the worst year of life. For some of us, this year has been amazing, and we can look back at new friends, new opportunities, and dream of future possibilities. Hope and optimism for the future, coupled with gratitude for the past make us all more thankful.
Most importantly this Thanksgiving bring yourself to the table. Not the self you portray online, not a hollow shell that is present everywhere except the place that you actually are, not the self is too afraid to be authentic. Bring your hopes, your struggles, your dreams, and most importantly bring your heart to the table. It’s why we all gather together.
Thanks Y’all,
Paul
November 13, 2018 0 comment
0 Facebook Twitter Google + Pinterest
Life

Thanksgiving and the Spirit of Gratitude

written by paulwrock
As we enter into the final months of the year, our hearts start to reflect on everything that has happened this year. The new friends we’ve made, the lessons we’ve learned, and the changes both joyous and challenging that we never expected. And eventually, we point our headlights towards our hometowns to celebrate Thanksgiving. I hope that Thanksgiving is not just a day that we celebrate once a year, but rather a posture of the heart throughout the year. In this post, I want to share a quick reflection about how thankfulness informs our past, present, and future.
The Past
First thankfulness helps give our past a positive context for reflection. We’ve all been through difficult things. No one comes to a Thanksgiving table without scars from wounds suffered during the year. For some of us, those wounds are embodied by a person who died too soon. Others feel the loss of a job they no longer have. Many more miss someone who chose to walk away. But regardless of what we’ve been through, we’re still here. We made it this far, and that is something to be grateful for. Beyond that, most of us can look back and see how God has been faithful to us this year.  For the Israelites, it meant collecting stones from a riverbed to remember kept promises. For me, it tends to come by looking pictures of things that happened that I would never have expected. Whatever it may be, find a way to reflect on the past with gratitude. It will give you confidence for the present.
The Present
As we look at the present, our gratitude should inform how we live. Because I am grateful to make a living doing something I love, I want to work with excellence. The more I consider the gifts of life and health, the more I want to give my all when I workout. The more I consider how blessed I am to be surrounded by talented musicians the more I want to be an excellent songwriter. I believe that gratitude inspires greatness. As we are reminded, “Everyone to whom much was given, of him much will be required, and from him to whom they entrusted much, they will demand the more.” – Luke 12:48
The Future
Finally, I think our gratitude for both the past and present should give us hope for the future. When we consider where we have been, and where we are, we should have tremendous optimism for where we are going. After Thanksgiving, we start to look towards Christmas and then on to the New Year. As we consider 2019: all the memories we will make, surprises we could never have imagined, and all the changes that lie ahead I hope we are full of gratitude. May we never lose sight of the fact that The Great Author is writing our stories, and He writes really good stories.
I’m grateful to each of you that took the time to read this.
Thanks Y’all,
Paul
November 7, 2018 0 comment
0 Facebook Twitter Google + Pinterest
Leadership

Songs, Audiences, Five Loaves, And Two Fish

written by paulwrock

For so many of us connecting with our audience is a huge part of our lives. We pray to see our audiences the way Jesus does, and then Jesus gives us a sense of compassion for them. We desire to serve them well. To provide teaching that impacts their lives. To create experiences they will remember. To create songs where they can hear something real truth.

However, then it seems like we never have enough time to get everything done, never have enough money to put into our music, or the resources to do everything we want. It seems like our vision is always greater than our resources. We are trying to feed a crowd with five loaves of bread and a couple of fish.

If you’ve ever felt like that, please know that Jesus cares about your crowd, and understands how you feel. One of the only stories told in all four Gospels is about Jesus feeding the Five Thousand. We know that the number only references five thousand men, so it is entirely possible the number was closer to twenty thousand people. They are hungry and not just in need of truth, but also in need of food as well. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by your lack of resources, remember these three things from this story.

First, Jesus already cares for your crowd more than you ever could (Matt 14:14, Mark 6:34). In the most stressful moments of event planning remember that God has divine plans and purposes for your audience and that He knows what they need. It’s not that He shares your concerns, but instead, He is letting you share in His.

Second, God has given you resources. None of us have nothing. Sometimes all you need are fives loaves and two fish for Jesus to do a miracle. Look to see how you can best use your resources and realize that God will equip you for the thing He asks of you.

Finally, place everything God has given into His hands and watch Him meet the needs of your audience. Jesus wants to bless those attending your event and multiply your resources far beyond anything you’re capable of doing. So give it to Him. The more you put in His hands now, the more you’ll have to lay at His feet one day.

We’re all trying to do big things with small resources. Whether you’re writing songs, running a business, or finding another way to change the world, don’t give up. It’s all going to work out!!

Thanks Y’all,

Paul

August 29, 2018 0 comment
0 Facebook Twitter Google + Pinterest
Lyrics

Songwriting Series Part III: Laugh, Think, Cry

written by paulwrock

 

“To me, there are three things everyone should do every day. Number one is laugh. Number two is think — spend some time in thought. Number three, you should have your emotions move you to tears. If you laugh, think and cry, that’s a heck of a day.”

– Jim Valvano, ESPY Speech 1993

Hey Y’all,

Today I want to talk about three things songs can do. This post is inspired by one of my favorite quotes from Jim Valvano(click here for speech). I believe that songs have many different roles, but every great song serves a purpose. In this article, I will be discussing three of those purposes. I believe great songs should make you laugh, make you think, or make you cry.

Laugh

Songs have been shown to directly affect mood, as studies have shown. So it’s important to listen to songs that bring you joy. Sometimes you’re having a bad day, and a song comes on the radio that turns your day around. Songs can help you escape reality, even if it’s just for a few minutes. They make you smile, they make you laugh, they make life better. One of my best friends here in Nashville Manning Rothrock does an excellent job of this. Manning says he writes for the girl who gave up on her dreams, is clocking out at 5 p.m. on Friday, and just needs a break from life. That is a worthy endeavor. We all need to laugh and enjoy life. Songs can help us do that.

Think

Songs can have a profound impact on how we see the world. Some of the most insightful pieces of art are the songs we listen to. Songs can impact how we interpret life events, view seasons of life, and find meaning in things we may have initially overlooked. So I would encourage each of you to write or listen to songs that make you think. A friend of mine Jakob Miller does this particularly well. He is able to capture the essence of moments and distill them into music that touches not just the heart but the mind as well. If you want to be a deep writer, as well as an educated listener, seek our songs that make you think.

Cry

Songs that can make you cry are extraordinarily powerful. One of the most powerful reactions to an event is shedding tears. Tears occur when we encounter something so real, so relatable, that it moves us deeply. Music can make us cry, and remind us that we’re not alone. That other people have experienced our pain, and have shared in our sorrows. Another close friend of mine Joy Beth Taylor writes songs to help people who feel alone. She uses her past and present struggles to help others find hope in their circumstances. Hope and tears are not mutually exclusive, and Country Music shows the link between the two well. Be real, get in touch with your soul, and don’t be afraid of music that makes you weep.

So there you have it. May your days and your songs be full of laughter, thoughts, and tears. What makes you laugh? What makes you think? What makes you cry? Share your opinions in the comments below.

Paul

April 25, 2018 0 comment
0 Facebook Twitter Google + Pinterest
Life

All For One: When The Who Becomes The Why

written by paulwrock

Hey Y’all,

I firmly believe that nothing will ever exceed it’s intended purpose. Our “what” will never exceed our “why.”  So whatever we pursue in life, it should be fueled by a high level of intention. I often ask writers, artists, and speakers who I work with “why do you write?” or “who do you write for?” These questions not only shape the direction of our work but also give me a window into the heart of the person I am working with. I believe that if one person is affected positively by something I write/do/or say it was worth the effort. I also believe that we should be as effective as possible in how we do things. So how do you stay focused on the one person, but not lose sight of the broader audience? That’s what I want to address in this post.

  1. Whatever You Do, Do It For The One

Whatever we do we should do it for a single person. It’s much easier to write a song for a person than it is for a faceless mass market. It also makes for a better song because it humanizes the process in a new way. If you’re dealing with clients or customers, it helps to think of them as individuals. We all want to be seen, known, and valued. So aim to create products, services, and experiences that will touch individuals in some way. For me, that means writing songs for people, particular people going through hard situations.

The most meaning songs I’ve written have were written for people going through hard times. Those are also typically the ones with the broadest appeal. Likewise, the love songs that I write are usually based on whoever I’m in love with at the time. Those also tend to be the ones that my audience relate to the most. The best way to resonate with an individual is to write for an individual. So keep that in mind as you do whatever it is that you do.

  1. See The Value Of Your Work In Terms Of A Single Person

One of the most meaning moments of my songwriting career came when my buddy Jed Bayes and I performed “Hannah’s Song” for her mother. Hannah was a fellow student with us in college and had died in a tragic accident. Jed and I wrote a song about her and God’s plan for her life. We had the opportunity to play it live for the first time, for her mother. Her mom said the song had helped her heal from the pain of losing Hannah. At that moment I knew that if I accomplished nothing else in music, it would’ve been worth it.

Whatever product, service, or experience you offer, make it meaningful for your consumers. Create moments that stay with people. Find ways to take the ordinary and make it extraordinary.  One of the books I recommend you on this is The Power Of Moments by Chip and Dan Heath. This book really zeros in on how to create these types of things. Whatever you do, make sure it adds value to at least one person, and let that one person be worth the work.

  1. Once You’ve Focused On One, Focus On Every One

Every person matters, so every person should be touched by what you create. To me, this is fundamental to marketing. You need to have things that are worth sharing and will affect as many individual lives as possible. When you launch a product that will meet a consumer need, it is your job to share it. When you write a song that can help someone, it is your job to make sure it gets heard. If you have a compelling story(which we all do), it is your job to tell it.

Ultimately every time someone benefits from what you do, it is a great feeling. It’s a huge part of why we exist as people. Because we love the individuals we serve(our target market), we want to help as many of them as possible. Once we have created something meaningful, we want to do as much good as we possibly can with it. So once you’ve helped one, help everyone you can.

I hope this has helped. As we continue to work towards our unique goals, I would love to get your thoughts. How do you focus on one person?  Let me know in the comments sections.

Paul

April 18, 2018 0 comment
0 Facebook Twitter Google + Pinterest
Lyrics

Songwriting Series Part II: The Significance of Songs

written by paulwrock

Hey Y’all,

For the second installment of my songwriting series, I want to discuss “what makes songs significant? ” Most of us would agree that a song has real value, but it is often hard to articulate what that value is. I believe songs affect our lives in many unique ways. Because of that, crafting songs is a task that should be untaken with excellence. In this post, I will examine three things that songs do. I hope that this exploration creates in you not only a deeper appreciation for songwriting but also the desire to do it to the best of your ability as well.

  1. Songs Capture Life’s Defining Moments & Create The Soundtrack By Which We Interpret Our Experiences.

All of us can look back on our lives and find defining moments. Moments that stand out for good or bad reasons. There are breakups we didn’t know if we would survive, tragedies that shattered our souls, moments of transcendence, and days we wish we could relive constantly. The highs, the lows, the fleeting moments or extraordinary, the mundane routines of life, and the moments where the lines between them blur. Life is full of memories.

Every relationship I’ve been in has a soundtrack. There’s the song for when I see her for the first time, for when we fell in love, and when we’ve broken up. Just as every girl is unique every playlist in unique.

Seasons of transition have soundtracks too. Right before I first moved to Nashville, I listened to “Last Time For Everything” by Brad Paisley constantly. As I wrapped up my time in Atlanta, I was aware that the season of life was ending.

Our best memories have soundtracks as well. I think back to my fraternity days in Birmingham. My pledge trainer had a burnt CD in his F-150 that he didn’t swap out for several years(it may still be in there). Every time I got to hang out with him, and the older brothers “Hell Raisin’ Heat of the Summer,” by Florida Georgia Line was on.

So songs are significant because they encapsulate moments. They help us contextualize and recall the times in our lives that we need to reflect on the most. We best honor those moments, by crafting good songs. A well-written song will help recall the feeling that those moments held.

  1. Songs Help Us Tell Our Stories And Help Others Find Their Own Stories In Our Music

The best songs touch on universal themes and shared experiences. The details, the place, the setting, the imagery. They make the song personal. Many people think that the best songs capture their own experiences accurately. What I believe is more meaningful is crafting a song that others can find their own stories in. Ultimately, all of our stories matter equally. One of my goals is not only to tell my story well, but rather to tell our stories well. The best songs are based on a million true stories, not just one.

We all need to understand how significant moments in our lives are. To hear those moments set to music is powerful. Songs help us remember moments that we want to relive. Songs help us rediscover lost feeling. They take us back to the experiences we wish we could relive, and in a small way, they help us to do so. To quote Brad Paisley, “this is your life in a song.” The best songs are the stories we all share.

  1. We Not Only Write Our Songs, But Our Songs Also Write Us.

Songs shape our lives. As much as art imitates life, life also imitates art. Thomas Rhett’s song “Learned It From The Radio,” expresses this concept brilliantly. There have been so many moments when songs have helped me get through difficult moments or shaped seasons of my life.

When I first moved to Nashville, I was paralyzed by fear of stepping into a new industry where it seemed like everyone knew each other except for me. Listening to “One Day You Will” by Lady Antebellum got me through those first few weeks of fright. Those words echoed hope into my life. Having spent almost a year in Nashville now, that song proved to be true.

As we listen to songs and as we write them, we need to remember what we listen to is profoundly shaping our lives. It’s part of why I love Country music. I believe we have the best songs. I hope that we will always consume and create songs worth shaping our lives.

I hope this has got you thinking about songs, their value, and the role they play in our lives. It is something I consider and wrestle with constantly. I would love to know how you view songs, and what you would add to or remove from this list. Let me know your thoughts in the comments below.

Paul

April 11, 2018 0 comment
0 Facebook Twitter Google + Pinterest
Lyrics

Songwriting Series Part I: What Is Songwriting?

written by paulwrock

Hey Y’all,

I wanted to start this series on songwriting by asking the question “what is songwriting?” I think it is an important place to our discussion on the subject. The dictionary defines songwriting as “the activity or process of writing popular songs or the music for them.” But I think for each of us, we know that we need a deeper definition.

At the most fundamental level, I believe songwriting is the sonic expression of the soul. It is an intentional arrangement of notes, chords, and lyrics that reflect the deepest realities of the heart. Songwriting is the craft that endears audiences to artists, presents a medium for philosophical, spiritual, and social conversations, and helps people contextualize their own stories either through the process of writing songs or by listening to them. In the end, we write our songs, but our songs also write us.

Songwriting looks different in every genre of music. Different songwriters have different creative processes. Songs have different purposes, even songs on the same record. In my next post, I will look at the significance of songs, and why writing great songs matter. For now, let me say that these components are framed from the perspective of a Country Music songwriter, so please keep that in mind.

First, the best songs will come from experience. There is a saying in Nashville that you write about what you know. Typically, the best works of art will come from a place of genuine inspiration. So songwriting is taking inspiration, and realizing it in a musical context.

Second, songs are stories that resonate with people. In music, the quality of an instrument is judged by how well it resonates, and the same is true of songs. The best songs resonate with people in a way that words alone never could. So songwriting is taking ideas presenting them in a way that resonates with others.

Finally, songs are how we interpret the world. This applies to both to those who write songs, and those who listen to them. For those of us who write about the experiences that shape us, songwriting provides a way for us to organize our life narratives in a meaningful way. For those of us who listen to songs, we are able to contextualize our experience through the thoughts, words, and sounds of another person. So songwriting is organizing life events in a meaningful way.

I know this has been a bit more academic, but I wanted us to have a clear understanding of what songwriting is. This is in no way an exhaustive definition, but I do think it provides a framework to start with. I can’t wait to continue this discussion in following posts. Until then, I would love to hear your thought on the subject. So, what is your definition songwriting? Why is it important to you? What would you add to this list?

Thanks,

Paul

April 2, 2018 0 comment
0 Facebook Twitter Google + Pinterest
Life

When The Journey Becomes The Destination

written by paulwrock

Hey Y’all,

For many of us, pursuing our calling can seem like an endless chase. We continuously work, without knowing if we will ever arrive, or what arriving would mean. Whether we have started a business, are trying to raise a family, or in my case write songs, the grind can seem endless. It’s not that we don’t enjoy our pursuit, after all, we choose to give our lives to these passions. It’s that we long for a destination that we have not yet reached. So how do we make sense of the situation? What should inspire us to keep going? Should we keep going?

The first thing is that the journey is, in fact, the destination. In his book Shoe Dog, Phil Knight the founder of Nike says the following about running ” When you run down an oval track, or down an empty road, you have no real destination. The act itself becomes the destination. It’s not that there’s no finish line; it’s that you define the finish line.” This is so important to remember. The end goal in music is to be a touring artist. To embark on a journey across the world, that hopefully doesn’t end. Once a person becomes a parent, they never cease to be one. For so many of us, our life’s goal leads us to a daily struggle, a routine, or path that doesn’t seem to end. It’s in the moments when we wonder if we’ll make it, that we must remember that we are making it. One step at a time.

The second thing is to struggle well on the journey. Journeys imply struggle. The stories we love to read about the most are the ones where heroes facing incredible challenges, and still found a way forward. The greater the struggle, the greater the journey. This is true not only in literature but in life as well. While we celebrate those who overcome their struggles, our struggles seem far less glorious. We so often long for the day when we won’t struggle anymore. However, this is not the correct view as Ray Dalio explains, in his book Principles “While I surpassed my wildest dreams decades ago, I am still struggling today. In time, I realized that the satisfaction of success doesn’t come from achieving your goals, but from struggling well.” The question we need to wrestle with is not “how do I avoid struggle on my journey?” but rather “how do I struggle well on my journey?” If we can figure out how to struggle well, we can live out our journey to it’s fullest potential.

The third thing to remember is that the journey gets better. There are higher highs that you have yet to experience. There are lower lows that will strengthen your resolve. There are new friends to make, and lessons you have yet to learn. One of the quotes that became a banner for me as I moved to Nashville comes from C.S. Lewis “There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.” That was the last thing I read in my driveway in Atlanta. That was the first thing I posted on Instagram. That was what got me to leave the Peach State and start my journey in Music City. Whatever journey you’re on, I promise it will get better. Ultimately, it will make you better, and that makes the journey worth it.

Remember, your journey is your destination, learn to struggle well, and the journey will get better. We’re all on a journey. Travel yours well, and help others along the way.

I hope this resonates with you in some way. What have you learned about your own journey? What principles have guided you? What advice would you share? Let me know in the comments section.

Paul

March 6, 2018 0 comment
1 Facebook Twitter Google + Pinterest

Paul’s Instagram

  • Just watched kaylorcoxmusic A Little More Guns Than Roses ahellip
  • When youre with the person you love every day ishellip
  • Couldnt let internationalwomensday pass without giving a shoutout to allhellip
  • When you and your buddy decide to start a recordhellip
  • Some Monday nights you get to sit outside by ahellip
  • Had an amazing first write with kaylorcoxmusic Shes by farhellip
  • We all look like hell but Im so proud ofhellip
  • Georgia Texas amp Alabama writers get together on a rainyhellip
  • Love writing with these guys musicrow    hellip

About Me

About Me

Paul Wrock

Artist. Speaker. Writer.

Recent Posts

  • What You Bring To The Table
  • Thanksgiving and the Spirit of Gratitude
  • Songs, Audiences, Five Loaves, And Two Fish
  • Songwriting Series Part III: Laugh, Think, Cry
  • All For One: When The Who Becomes The Why

Newsletter

Subscribe my Newsletter for new blog posts, tips & new photos. Let's stay updated!

Recent Comments

    Archives

    Life, Lyrics, Leadership

    • Leadership (1)
    • Life (4)
    • Lyrics (3)

    Meta

    • Log in
    • Entries feed
    • Comments feed
    • WordPress.org

    Keep in touch

    Facebook Twitter Instagram

    Recent Posts

    • What You Bring To The Table

    • Thanksgiving and the Spirit of Gratitude

    • Songs, Audiences, Five Loaves, And Two Fish

    • Songwriting Series Part III: Laugh, Think, Cry

    • All For One: When The Who Becomes The Why

    Categories

    • Leadership (1)
    • Life (4)
    • Lyrics (3)

    Paul Wrock

    About ME

    Hey Y’all,

    My name is Paul, and thank you for checking out my website. I believe we all have a story worth telling, and this website represents my attempt to empower people to engage with the narratives they want to tell, in a powerful way.
    I hope we ultimately get to know each other from the songs writes, blogs I post, and the conversations we have, but here is a little bit about me. I am 27 years old, I live in Nashville, TN, and I love the power that music and stories hold in shaping how we live and think. I spent 10 years working in politics, I then we to work in the Christian non-profit world, and now I write music in Nashville. More than ever, I believe this world needs songs that express meaning, truth, and hope.
    God has put each of us here to change the world. I believe that we tend to experience the world with a soundtrack, and I want to write songs that help contextualize life and all the emotions that come with it. Country Music is an inherently relatable genre and gives us all the opportunity to discuss every conceivable experience in an honest way.
    I believe we all share many of the same experiences, and because of that as I tell my story in songs, I hope you find your story as well. The best songs are the ones where you feel understood, known, and you know you’re not the only person who has experienced how you feel. Our shared beliefs, passions, and desires lead to us having a shared story. That is what I hope to express in my music. This website will be a place for you to engage with my songs, and hopefully, a place for you to engage with something that relates to you as well.
    The next component will be content that will either be used for speaking or writing. In this case, I will be writing blog posts that offer my thoughts one different a variety of subjects from faith to current events. I hope that my unique perspective offers you not only insight into how a songwriter interprets life, but also the chance to wrestle with these ideas and contribute your thoughts as well.
    Finally, I would love for this website to be a place for us to connect and me to be able to help you find a way to help you tell you or your organization’s story. From messaging to building online platforms, I believe you have a story worth telling, and I would love to help you tell it. Whether you’re the president of a company looking to engage your customers or an artist looking to build a fanbase, I would love to talk have a conversation with you about who you are, why you’re here, and how I can help you achieve your dreams.
    Thanks again for reading this. I can’t wait to get to know you more. Sign up for my weekly newsletter, find me on social media, message me on Facebook, Instagram, or email me here, and let’s be friends.

    Newsletter

    Subscribe my Newsletter for new blog posts, tips & new photos. Let's stay updated!

    Wrock Talk

    Subscribe my Newsletter for new blog posts, tips & new photos. Let's stay updated!

    • Facebook
    • Twitter
    • Instagram
    • Email

    @2017 - PenciDesign. All Right Reserved. Designed and Developed by PenciDesign


    Back To Top